Do I not have the right to ask where he is?
I’m one of those women who when she sees something strange I’m going to speak up. My husband and I haven’t been on the best of terms for the past few weeks and he claims that I inquire too much about things a typical 48 year old woman wouldn’t even care about. Well. usually he comes home from work and sits in the other room watching TV until time to go to bed. Last night after eating dinner he told me he had to run to his mom’s house for a little while. My husband and his siblings are always at their parents house. They usually always gather there on Sunday afternoon and he’ll stop by there several times a week and even on weekends. Me, I don’t spend that much time with my parents and yes, they live in our city too. He left and several hours later I sent him this text, “”I am going to ask a question: you are just hanging at your Mom which is kinda unusual for you to do on a weeknight? I do find it strange.” His reply to me was, “I didn’t know I had a curfew.” When he got home we got into it because he said I treat him like my child instead of my husband. He typically doesn’t just go visit his parents in the middle of the week so I thought that was strange. We got into a big argument when he got home. Then he shoved his phone in my face showing me that he went to his parents and sister’s house to show them the cap and gown photos of his daughter who is graduating college this coming May.